Sexual fantasies are: (A) Silly (B) A waste of time (C) An important component to sexual desire, arousal and orgasm. If you said “C” you are correct! Sexual fantasy can be an important part of what drives our desire and our response. Fantasies can be anything you desire. Maybe you are imagining a setting like …
Continue ReadingSexting — for adults.
Recently, there has been a lot of negative attention on “Sexting”. Sexting, is sending sexually suggestive text messages via phone. These text may come in the form of written words, or sexual images. This hot topic has been discussed in main stream media because some teenagers have been sending naked images to friends or sexual …
Continue ReadingWhy does lube get such a bad rap?
I am always surprised at the people who do not use lube because they designate it for a particular person…usually an older woman or some one who cannot get easily aroused. Many times I will hear, “I don’t need that”. Lube can be for everyone! Lube can make it easier for a number of things. …
Continue ReadingHey, the Catholic church thinks sex is okay, too!
It is so nice to see the Catholic church taking a stand that sex within marriage is a good thing. So many of the women who come to see who are religious often feel ambivalent about being sexy, acting sex, having sex. So read this article about the polish priest sexpert…
Continue ReadingBut its not real sex…
There are so many fun things to do with your partner that can bring you closer together, that doesnt always end in intercourse. These “fun things” are usually referred to as foreplay, a word most of us in the sexuality field hate! Because it insinuates that those “fun things” only have BEFORE the real event, …
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