Hello Readers — I’m a new member of the team at the Medical Center for Female Sexuality. In my role as marketing and business development guru, I come across interesting blogs, articles and studies about sex. As administrator of this blog, I thought it would be nice if I made a contribution to our readers! So here’s …
Continue ReadingOral sex Saturday’s.
As a positive sexual advocate, I believe it is important for couples to continue having non-intercourse forms of sex. Many times couples still include non-intercourse forms of sex such as massage, using hands on each others genitals and oral sex, but only as a precursor to intercourse, or as “foreplay”. Many people in the sexuality …
Continue ReadingChoosing the right vibrator.
Choosing the right vibrator can be intimidating. Where can I purchase one? Do I have to go into a sex toy shop? What if someone I know sees me there?! I’m not even sure what I want. First off, if you’re reading this then you’ve already decided to try a vibrator. Bravo for you! Either …
Continue ReadingOn scheduling sex — when you have kids.
Often times I’ll tell patients with children that they need to schedule specific times for sex. They will look at me quizzically, not quite getting what I am suggesting. “Good sex” in our society is so often synonymous with “spontaneous sex,” that to suggest scheduling sex, is almost like suggesting sex with your clothes on. …
Continue ReadingThe importance of vacations.
My mother was my first “sex educator” and spoke to me openly about sex, love, relationships and intimacy. When I started progressing in my academic career, my father became more relaxed and also would share words of wisdom about relationships. One of the many things that stuck in my head from them was the importance …
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