Click here to see a rather humorous and embarrassing video. A woman was testifying for an agency hearing on text books in Texas. She was testifying against comprehensive sex education and was using herself as an example of how one can get to 56 be “technically” a virgin but still have had sexual pleasure. After …
Continue ReadingA typical first visit…
Women are often nervous when first coming to the Medical Center for Female Sexuality, because they do not know what to expect. As a sexuality counselor, and the second person a patient will meet after the lovely ladies at the reception desk, I will typically explain within the first few minutes what will happen at …
Continue ReadingSex before the clothes come off.
“An embrace should fill the heart as well as the arms.” – Hugh & Gail Prather I know you’ve heard it before. But it’s true so it’s really worth keeping in mind…sex (and the approach to sex) is about noting, feeling, understanding and touching the WHOLE person, both inside and out. Yes, yes, I know. …
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I was trolling around blogland and came upon this creative and inviting post by Shaina Gaul on empowHER.com. She was blogging about women and orgasm, the dilemmas we have when our bodies don’t necessarily respond the way we want them to, even when with a person we love! Shaina recommends “private practice” – yes, masturbation …
Continue ReadingWet spots.
So no one really talks about how messy sex can be. I must say I’ve gotten kind of cynical when I watch movies and the sex scenes begin. The clothing just falls away (what no buttons, zippers or errant hooks?), the penis seems to find it’s entry into the vagina with no guidance (perhaps by …
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