The importance of vacations.

My mother was my first “sex educator” and spoke to me openly about sex, love, relationships and intimacy. When I started progressing in my academic career, my father became more relaxed and also would share words of wisdom about relationships. One of the many things that stuck in my head from them was the importance …

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I’ll take sexual fantasy please for 300…

Sexual fantasies are: (A) Silly (B) A waste of time (C) An important component to sexual desire, arousal and orgasm. If you said “C” you are correct! Sexual fantasy can be an important part of what drives our desire and our response. Fantasies can be anything you desire. Maybe you are imagining a setting like …

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Sexting — for adults.

Recently, there has been a lot of negative attention on “Sexting”. Sexting, is sending sexually suggestive text messages via phone. These text may come in the form of written words, or sexual images. This hot topic has been discussed in main stream media because some teenagers have been sending naked images to friends or sexual …

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Why does lube get such a bad rap?

I am always surprised at the people who do not use lube because they designate it for a particular person…usually an older woman or some one who cannot get easily aroused. Many times I will hear, “I don’t need that”. Lube can be for everyone! Lube can make it easier for a number of things. …

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