Not only do I love my job because I get to help people, but I also get to constantly explore and test out anything that has to do with increasing one’s sexual pleasure. It recently occurred to me that my closet is x-rated and that when my child goes looking for something in my room …
Continue ReadingNY Post and kosher sex.
In the New York Post this week there was an article about a new online site selling vibrators to the religious Jewish community. I love to see vibrators in mass media publications; the fact that there was a wide range of opinions discussed in the article from within that community adds even more value. At …
Continue ReadingSex and the vibrator movie.
I admit it. I have been waiting all my life (okay, maybe just the last 10 years) for someone to make a quality film about the incredibly interesting history of vibrators. Really. I’m not kidding. And finally, someone is doing it. (Well, I can’t actually vouch that it’s quality, but it is a real film). …
Continue ReadingVibrators in the New York Times.
As a sex educator, it is exciting to see Vibrators covered in the New York Times. The journalist has pegged the piece to the new found presence of vibrators in regular drug stores. They are now sold at Duane Reade! This is a wonderful step because vibrators were and still are sometimes thought of as …
Continue ReadingWhen it comes to sex, lying is not a good idea!
Yesterday we saw a wonderful patient of ours. She originally came in because she felt like “there was something wrong with her.” She was having a difficult time having orgasms and, more often than not, she could not have them with a partner. We’ve worked with her for a while to help her understand that …
Continue ReadingIntercourse and orgasm.
Most women don’t have an orgasm from intercourse alone You’ve heard me say it again and again…there is nothing “wrong” with you if you can’t have an orgasm from intercourse. It puts you squarely with 70% of women. And if you are someone who is able to have orgasms from a hand, a mouth or …
Continue ReadingEngagement gifts, wedding presents, birthdays…sex toys show creative genius!
Sex toys are becoming mainstream. As well they should. The Journal of Sexual Medicine recently reported that a whopping 53 percent of women had used a vibrator, and although the numbers were lower for the guys, they were getting in on the act too! And the study suggested that sexual satisfaction amongst “toy users” was …
Continue ReadingWith Valentine’s Day approaching…
After many years with a partner, Valentine’s Day might not have the same thrill it did when you celebrated your first Valentine’s Day together. Romantic dinners are replaced with long waits at restaurants, piled in with lovers celebrating their love together, enough to disgust the singles out there. Romantic overtones of flowers and chocolates have …
Continue ReadingPenis shaped vibrators.
Somehow when women going looking for a vibrator they often come home with a penis shaped one — long and thin and clearly meant for internal use. That’s great if what you want is vaginal stimulation. If, however, what you are looking is clitoral stimulation , which is what most women want, then you need …
Continue ReadingYo partners!
I saw a patient today….she always makes me smile. She’s 74 and so upbeat and positive. She came in a few months ago complaining that her libido just wasn’t what it used to be, orgasms were getting harder to achieve and just weaker. We worked with her on some hormone treatments and she is, to …
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