Especially around Holiday time we have so much happening and our To-Do list can begin to look like The Gettysburg Address! Take a breath and take note of The Real To – Do List: Sing Smile Keep learning Notice kindness Eat well Hope Count your blessings Laugh Love Love some more Keep adding to this …
Continue ReadingLiving Life in Shades of Gray
Many of us tend to “split” and see life and ourselves as either good or bad, right or wrong, smart or dull, fair or unfair, or one extreme or the other. This is called “black and white thinking “and we generally engage in it to give us a sense of control and familiarity. In truth, …
Continue ReadingThe Orgasm Gap… What Gives?
We’ve long been familiar with the gender wage gap; we hear about it regularly in the mainstream media and may even discuss it with our family and friends. But in recent years, a new ‘gender gap’ has started to receive more focus and attention – the orgasm gap. Sociologists and researchers have been increasingly interested …
Continue ReadingHow to Have Sex When the Kids are Home
I recently got a card from my husband that was perfect. It had a picture of two teenagers sneaking off to the basement to have sex while their parents watch TV in the next room. The second panel had a picture of two middle-aged parents sneaking off to have sex while their teenagers watched TV …
Continue ReadingVibrators for the Holidays
Holiday shopping can be both fun, and stressful at the same time. Many people want to get just “the right gift,” or making sure that the person will be surprised at the uniqueness of their gift. So how about a vibrator? There are literally hundreds of vibrators on the market, and numerous websites selling them …
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