No. No. No. I’m not doing another harangue on penis length, I promise. This has to do with time. There seems to be a prevalent myth out there that women always want men who can last longer. HMMMMM…let’s see. The average time that a penis usually spends in a vagina before ejaculating is 3-5 minutes. …
Continue ReadingHaving and orgasm during intercourse.
I am very sure I have mentioned this statistic in previous blogs… only 30% of women orgasm from a penis in their vagina alone. Only 30%. O.K. So if you’re not one of the 30% there is really nothing wrong with you!! However, often women say they WANT to have an orgasm while their partner …
Continue ReadingAffairs…Do they help married sex?
So here’s an odd thing. Yet another patient, tall, dark, very attractive and in her early 40’s said to me “Geeze. The best sex we ever had was when he was having an affair…and I KNEW ABOUT IT.” This is soooo not the first time I’ve heard this. And why was this, I asked her. …
Continue ReadingBirth control pills…
So as a professional I have many mixed feelings about the good old birth control pill. On the one hand they can really ease a woman’s worries about becoming pregnant and that’s a great thing. On the other hand, more and more studies are coming out suggesting that they lower hormone levels which effect women’s …
Continue ReadingTeaching about sex.
I’m giving another HS sex ed class tomorrow. I always worry there won’t be enough to say, which is kind of ridiculous given that most people can talk about sex ad infinitem. Anyhow, in my heart of heats I think if a sex ed class includes these four items, you’re good: Sex and vaginal intercourse …
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