To add to a previous post of mine, if you are trying to avoid swallowing the semen of your partner, you may want to try this. When he feels ready and communicates that to you, continue to lick, kiss, stroke, etc. the shaft and testicles. To quote from a favorite movie of mine, “Mind the …
Continue ReadingThanksgiving…
I am thankful for the opportunity to help people heal and to help people grow. I am thankful for the ability to help people feel normal. I am thankful for the ability to help people embrace their sexual fantasies, desires, behaviors, orientation and identity. I am thankful when I can help somebody let go of …
Continue ReadingStart your week with a smile.
So you women out there think that ejaculating is so easy for your guy??? Think again. Here is a GREAT clip from Woody Allen’s Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask. It’s about 5-7 minutes long but worth watching in its entirely. Thanks so much to Felix from IASHS …
Continue ReadingVulvodynia — What was I thinking?
I am a very active member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). I’m a sex therapist with a private practice in Colorado. Yesterday, I had a patient with a very complex case of vulvodynia so I put out the word confidentially to my colleagues at AASECT that I needed the …
Continue Reading“Changing landscapes” in infidelity.
The New York Times recently did an article on the changing patterns of adultery. Data suggests that there are significant shifts, with interesting pattern shifts. It seems that older people, as well as women, are raising the averages significantly. These are trends that make sense when you consider that people are more active socially later …
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