In the last few months I seem to be the envy of all the men I know. Straight, single, gay or married they all want to hear about why and how I get paid to watch pornography. It is actually a tiny part of what I do but to some it might seem the most compelling. I am looking at pornography to find sex scenes that might spice up the sex lives of couples that need a little variety, inspire women who have low libidos, and offer ideas to women who struggle with generating sexual fantasies that might improve their sexual experiences.
What I have realized in the process of viewing a lot of DVDs is that there is not a lot of content that I like or that I think would be particularly useful. People’s sexual fantasies are extremely unique and idiosyncratic. As a sexuality counselor, I will certainly continue to search for videos that I think will be helpful. I am also looking at more mainstream movies that have good sex scenes in them.
Peoples tastes are so individual that the more variety there is to choose from, the better. I would really like to hear from you. Let me know what movies scenes or DVD’s you like and why you like them.
Thanks for your help! I look forward to hearing from you.