You know the old saying… when sex is good it’s about 20% of a relationship. When it’s bad it’s 90%. Or…sex is like the third leg of a stool. If it’s there and steady you don’t notice it. If it’s missing, the whole stool starts to wobble! The reality is that I’ve seen this time and time again in a marriage. A couple comes in, so angry and upset. Or they are feeling distant or rejected. When we get their sex life back on track, somehow the whole thing just turns around. It’s never quite ceases to amaze me how sex in a relationship can make both partners feel so much better about themselves and each other!
So…go have sex.