I usually hear this from the women whose libidos are low and don’t want sex at all. Both they and their husbands have decided he needs sex every day. The truth is, that in my experience, sex everyday is a fantasy that most men have. But when it comes to reality…you know what? It’s a bit better for them in fantasy then in reality. They get tired too. They get stressed too. They are busy too. In a few cases, when the women’s libido were back to normal, I suggested they try an experiment and have sex every day. (I suggested they not tell their husbands about the experiment but just initiate sex every day.) In almost every case it took 2-3 weeks, at which point the husbands said “Sweetie, I love you, but not tonight.” The truth is, that like almost everything else in life, when you can’t have it, it seems like you can never have enough. When you know you can have as much as you want, things become more real and focused and you find that you don’t need to have all of it all the time in order to feel satisfied. It’s a great experiment for those of you who are up to it. It makes men realize that maybe 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 times a week is really okay for them…and let’s women see that maybe their husbands are not the sex maniacs they thought they were.
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