Sex before the clothes come off.

“An embrace should fill the heart as well as the arms.” – Hugh & Gail Prather

I know you’ve heard it before. But it’s true so it’s really worth keeping in mind…sex (and the approach to sex) is about noting, feeling, understanding and touching the WHOLE person, both inside and out.

Yes, yes, I know. Sometimes, wild, crazy, don’t-even-really-notice-the-other-person-beyond-the-erogenous-zones-sex can be fun and great. But for the most part, you and your partner will probably find that sex as part of an appreciation of the other person, the way that they see, think, feel, love and touch, will go further in the long run. So the next time you go to touch the one you love, try touching their spirit as well as their skin!

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Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW, MPH, PhD

Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus is a certified sex therapist and the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, one of the largest centers for women’s sexual health in the country. Dr. Marcus wrote her dissertation on women and vibrator use while earning her Doctor of Philosophy in human sexuality from the Institute of Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She also has a Master’s in public health from the same institution. She is a licensed social worker with a Master’s degree from Columbia University. Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices and laboratories. In addition to being featured in a NY Times article, she is a frequent guest on radio, podcasts and has lectured both nationally and overseas on a wide variety of women's issues.
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