[Meghan]

You are more than welcome 🙂 Keep us posted on how it’s going 🙂 Remember, rejoice in whatEVER steps you make going forward, you are going to get there soon…. I sure felt like giving up, but looking back I had no idea how close I was 🙂 You’ve got this girl! <3

[Meghan]

My friend…. I have never met you, yet… my heart goes out to you, and I FEEL the things you are feeling right now, so deeply. I just want to come to you from a side of HOPE…. I was where you are, right there, almost exactly a year ago this month 🙂 It was a dark time, you’re right it IS exciting and encouraging that progress was made for you, and you could get anything in at all, but still… in the back of your mind you are thinking… “But I want to be all the way. I want this to be over. I want to just be normal.” That’s what I was thinking…. You are doing EVERYTHING you can right now my friend, you’re going to make it, I know because I MADE IT, it took a while for me… to be realistic, it took me about 8 months to have full intercourse 🙂 But let me tell you, I sure wanted to quit I wanted to give up, and I didn’t want to dilate anymore, I wondered, what’s the use… its probably worn off by now anyways. But it was ALL working towards the perfect time. And it will be that way for you too, I promise. Don’t be afraid that it will wear off… if you keep being faithful in small steps every day, it WILL pay off. I know it was REALLY difficult for me to make myself dilate when I was discouraged. But I tried to make it part of my routine, just like brushing my teeth or washing my face, I usually did it in the morning, or as I was going to bed at night, I would lay in bed and watch a fun show or something, eat a bowl of ice cream 🙂 Even if it’s #3 for 5 minutes! That’s ok! just relax and know you are DOING it, little by little…. that’s my suggestion for you, just make it part of your routine. Don’t judge yourself or compare to other women that it came faster and easier for…. these are NOT setbacks, they are just part of your journey. You’ve come SO FAR already!! You’ve put so much into this… I have FULL faith in you <3 I will be praying for you, and sending good thoughts <3 xoxo

[Meghan]

Great Topic! Here’s one of my favorite quotes that I was doodling the other night……….

[Meghan]

This was incredibly encouraging… and exactly what I needed to read right now. Thank you! 🙂

[Meghan]

I am 2 days post procedure and had a question…. I understand that the sore-ness is going to be there because of the length and rigorous dilating that I’ve been doing for the past 48 hours, (I went from a completely “closed” vagina, to a size #6) But I felt a weird and different sensation this evening as I was walking around with out any dilator in, my thighs and upper legs (and legs) felt like Jello, super wobbly, and limp…. almost numb? This could be something else, or have nothing to do with it, but I thought I would ask to see if any one else experienced anything like this? Thank you!!

[Meghan]

Still getting used to the Forum! I am never sure how to write a post! Oh well! Anyways…
I had a question…. it seems like most people are able to move around ok with the dilator staying in place, I have two pairs of underwear, a pad and spanks on and it STILL feels like it’s going to fall out 🙁 I have to take it out to go to the bathroom, because I just couldn’t do it with it in, put then I put it back in no problem at all! 🙂 YAY! This IS my first day! 🙂 So it’s all very new, but I wanted to see how every one elses first day went?

[Meghan]

This is AMAZINGly encouraging! 🙂 I had my first day of treatment today 🙂 And am encouraged already, and so hopeful about the “next step” having sec with my husband 🙂 It makes me so happy to hear of your wonderful outcome and accomplishment! I sure hope I will be posting my sucess story soon too!

[Meghan]

This is SO encouraging to hear!!!! THANK YOU for sharing….. I am scheduled to have my procedure in a few weeks, and reading this makes me even more excited about the hope for the future. So happy for you…. you deserve it, and have worked hard for it!

[Meghan]

Hello! Let me introduce myself…. I am a graphic designer/artist with my own business called Scrambled Meggs here in Sacramento California. I have two Chihuahuas named Taco and Beans, who bring me constant joy and frustration 🙂 I am married to my BEST friend (we’ve been besties since we were 12 years old) We have been married for 4 years now, and love each other more than ever, but have definitely been through some rough times with dealing and living in a sex-less marriage. I always knew there was a reason why we were going through these 4 years of confusion and pain and frustration…. and I do believe it’s because it led us HERE, to where we have a chance for hope, for the first time that I can remember, the pain we went through and the time that felt “wasted” because I was “broken” made us and will make us stronger people and friends and lovers. I have NOT yet had my procedure, and am usually a very skeptical pessimistic person, but in THIS case, for some reason, I am letting go of that, and I have 100% hopefully and excited and positive that this is the answer that we’ve been waiting for….. I am SO willing to work, and follow any instructions that are given to be the best patient that I can be. I have read all your stories and posts on here, and FEEL for you, from the bottom of my heart…. thank you for sharing, it helps people like me to know I am not alone. I am beyond grateful for a possible answer for us…. and a NEW life, with this very crucial and magical side of being a woman.

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