[Hatuey]

I am so low. I cry myself to sleep most nights. I am still on dilator 3. It is less sore but feels uncomfortable when it is inside. It has been months now and I only have 2 months botox left. I have been told to try and do it with my boyfriend and try to be aroused. I cannot. I feel all my sex drive has been zapped out of me. To be honest I would rather eat a bar of chocolate than do any sexual non penetrative activities.Is this normal?

[Hatuey]

Thank you for all the advice. One more question. Is it reasonably normal to feel soreness and discomfort while actually doing the dilating. I worry that when I do try intercourse it will be sore then, The soreness has not dissipated, Does it mean that I am simply stretching the muscles and that is why I feel soreness. Is it just the case that I need to spend more time dilating before moving on. I feel pretty low as my provider (who has offered no more help) informed me after botox I would be able to have sex after 2 weeks. I am so confused. I do not know what is right and what is wrong. Regarding numbing cream/gel can you recommend one and how to apply it.

[Hatuey]

Ihave been dilating for over four weeks since my post botox follow up appointment now and I have moved onto dilator 4 out of 5 dilator sizes. I can insert it but it is sore as was the number three even when I decided to change to number 4. My provider said after 2 weeks I could try intercourse which is not what is happening. Shoud I continue to feel discomfort and soreness. I am at a loss as it is clear my provider is not going to give me further guidance and advice. I cannot imagine attempting intercourse. I am feeling really low indeed as I just do not know what is happening is normal or not

[Hatuey]

Do you think the use of a numbing lubricant could hlep initailly to help me move to a number 4 dilator, I have been on a 3 for over 3 weeks now and I still feel soreness. My regime is to move the dilator in and out 20 times which I am able to. Ihad botox on the 5th June. Do i still have time and what is happening fairly normal

[Hatuey]

I have done dilator 3 for 2 weeks a little sore but I am able to do it reasonably well. I am very nervous to move to number 4 if I am sore because I think it will make dilating sorer. Has anyone got any advice on the best way to move forward

[Hatuey]

I have had botox treatment four weeks ago, I am not sure if this is normal or not but when I dilate I feel soreness. Pain out of ten is three but I thought with botox this was not going to happen. Any advice would be really appreciated

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