[Nola218]

The most important thing to focus on is deep breathing. I realized that not only during sex, but any time my boyfriend would touch me at all, I’d stop breathing. Once I focused on breathing during everything, it helped me to relax a ton.

[Nola218]

Hi Nakita – I find that if we are both laying on our side if he enters from behind it is the most comfortable for me. For anxiety reasons I still have a hard time if he’s in front of me – I get a bit claustrophobic and need “space” to breathe 🙂

[Nola218]

Thank you for the kind words everyone!

Elaine – my boyfriend will be traveling with me and will be part of the treatment process. I’m looking forward to the further sense of togetherness that will bring for us. Up until now, as supportive as he has been, I still sometimes feel like this is my problem so I should solve it alone, and that it’s my fault that we’re in this predicament, but hopefully this gets rid of those feelings 🙂 I’m looking forward to meeting you!

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