[haley1125]

Your first step should be going to the doctor. They will be the best ones to help you.

[haley1125]

My fiance and I have been together for 4 years. And this is the only thing we really lack communication on. If he doesn’t get upset over it, I do and then I just shut down and cry. It worse due to the fact when we first started dating we never had an issue and had a very healthy sexual relationship. Now we go months without sex.
Communication is hard to build.
Sometimes it’s more of him making a comment about not liking/wanting sex or not even being interested in him. Once in a while it is that even if we could have sex that wouldn’t matter because I wouldn’t know what to do. Communication is something you just have or don’t I guess.

[haley1125]

The Glass are not in my budget, so im going to wait for the Pure romance to come back in stock and give those a try, anythings worth it

[haley1125]

Where can i find dilators??? Or any specific kind you all recommend?

[haley1125]

Do you need to be treated before using dilators??

[haley1125]

The dilators will need to wait, it’s just not in my budget. But thank you for the help and the advice. It’s nice to know im not alone

[haley1125]

As much as i would love to try, I have lost my insurance, and when i had brought my concerns to the doctors, i was told loosing it would be better for me. Then I would have to step away from the problem and my mind would heal my body. They also told me that because we can sometimes have intercourse it must be a body/mind issue. If it was anything else, then it would always be an issue, even if it is very painful.
In terms of dilators we have never used them, and im not sure where to get them and how much they will cost. Also, this will more likely then not have to be something I do on my own, for my fiance really doesn’t believe me. I did have him read this, but he doesn’t believe it is what I have because we are able to have sex sometimes, and all other stories are of “hitting the wall”

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