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It made me cry. Bringing back memories and emotions and knowing that someone else went through this and overcame it.

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i’m not married, my partner lives 600 miles away. I have always told guys that I have vaginismus, and the right one will stick around.

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I told some girls I felt like I could trust. I’m not sure if they believed me that I have a problem, but they were sympathetic. Most of the people that are around me understand that I’m weird anyway, because I’m into metaphysics and I’m just the resident weirdo in town.

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I also heard that if you’re using the pure romance dilators, you shouldn’t use the silicon lubes because they will cause the dilators to expand.

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I just got my surgery 3 days ago. I use water based lubricant (surgy lube mixed with Lydocane) but it’s really thick. It does seem to be dryer in the morning after sleeping with it, and I am afraid it will hurt if I pull it out. I have been using my muscles to push it out and I usually push it out in 30 seconds without touching it at all! I’m looking around for other lubes because I will run out soon. I asked the pharmacist which one she thought would last the longest and she said she didn’t know and looked at me like she was disapproving of my question. After reading here, I think I will go try the Astroglide with cocoa butter as a base.

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what’s the best razor for that area? I want a pretty vagina. LOL.

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I had level 5 vaginismus, but I was always able to touch my own clitoris to reach orgasm. I had to touch it a certain way and if anybody else touched it, it hurt. I have very large lips over my clitoris and it potects it from too much stimulation, and I was able o rub the outside and stimulate the clitoris gently to reach climax. I’ve never been able to handle any type of penetration and I was unable to ware tampons. I’m scared that since I’m used to clitoral stimulation, that I will never have orgasm from penetration. I am on day one after my botox treatment, and I have been using the dialators successfully, but I don’t like the feeling at all, and it’s very uncomfortable.

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