Often when I’m speaking, I will point out that sex is just not like what they show in the movies. You know, we’ve all seen those great scenes where the clothes have no buttons or zippers to contend with, the penis finds its way into the vagina with no hand guiding it (kind of like a homing pigeon), there are no wet spots on the bed after sex and both people orgasms at the same time. Yea. Right. Well sometimes I feel like we all fall prey to the fantasy of the Hollywood sex scenes. No more. This video, which I thought was awesome, debunks those scenes in the best possible way: through humor. So watch, and laugh.
The real “Hollywood” sex scene.
- Posted in: Education, Health, Sex Life, Sexual Health
Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW, MPH, PhD
Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus is a certified sex therapist and the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, one of the largest centers for women’s sexual health in the country. Dr. Marcus wrote her dissertation on women and vibrator use while earning her Doctor of Philosophy in human sexuality from the Institute of Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She also has a Master’s in public health from the same institution. She is a licensed social worker with a Master’s degree from Columbia University. Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices and laboratories. In addition to being featured in a NY Times article, she is a frequent guest on radio, podcasts and has lectured both nationally and overseas on a wide variety of women's issues.
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