[sunnysonya]

I think sex workers aren’t legal in large parts in the world, which means most of them are operating under another flag (like massage therapists). I guess that’s the reason why they are not easy to find and/or can’t advertise their services.

What I find fantastic is that apparently having penetrative sex is only ONE of the points they tackle, and not even the most important one judging from your story. I think being single and having to deal with vaginismus is even a bigger issue vs. when you’re in a relationship, cause the first partner you’re going to meet after therapy will indeed be someone you’ll have to trust immensely and I can understand this is such a giant step for most patients they even don’t want/dare to take that step and stay single for the rest of their life. For those women having a sex worker to “learn” how to be intimate with someone can be of great help.

[sunnysonya]

Thanks for asking! That’s very sweet of you guys. My partner is currently still abstaining from masturbation and we’re hoping to start trying to have sex in a week or two.

[sunnysonya]

Julie, your story gave me goosebumps, I could almost feel your enthusiasm and I can totally understand how this can help some vaginismus patients with a broader set of problems like lack of self esteem and sexual experience. Was it your therapist who pointed you towards that sex worker? If you want to share more details, please do since I think this is something lots of us are curious about 🙂

[sunnysonya]

@recessivegenequeen Thanks for your support. May I ask how long he abstained and if he resumed masturbation again after he was able to have an orgasm during penetration?

[sunnysonya]

Thank you Mark. Much appreciated. I’ve talked it over with my partner, and I’ve shown him your reply. He is willing to give it a try!

[sunnysonya]

We’ve been using the trick Bettydee wrote about for as long as I can remember. It’s the only way I feel “safe” enough to reach an orgasm in my husbands presence!

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