Hi everyone,
I’m so glad to be in this forum. I’m 25 and I live in England. I found this site by googling ‘vaginismus forum’, mostly because I just needed to TELL someone I have it. The only person I’ve talked about it with is one male friend, and while he was reasonably nice about it, I really need to share it with people who actually understand! Because it feels like this huge, shameful secret. I feel like a freak and a failure as a woman, and like I’m not a real adult or human. I made the decision to start doing something about it after the conversation with that friend, and I think it’s going to be really helpful reading everyone’s stories and tips. I also just need some hope that it gets better?
TeddyGirl x