I tried again yesterday and got almost half a finger in! It hurt at the deepest point, the same burning/sharp pain. I backed out a little and theN there was no pain, and I was still in about an inch.
Is that too much/rapid progress for this to be vaginismus? Today I still feel a stinging pain inside, in the same spot it hurt yesterday. Not really bad at all, but I’m aware of it. I think I pushed too hard and held it there too long once I felt the pain. I have no regrets, not scared to try again! But I will be more patient next time.