Hi Jackie, thanks for sharing.
My wife has vaginismus and after a lot of practice, we are finally able to have intercourse. This is a huge step forward for us. But, as you say it feels vary “mechanical” and neither I nor my wife enjoys the penetration.
Besides patience, I wonder if you have any specific tips on how to make it more enjoyable?
Dose specific posture will help? more lubricant? longer foreplay?
At this point, it’s too painful for my wife if both of us move during the penetration. So, when we are in bed one of us will move while the other lie still. I suspect part of the “mechanical filling” is due to this fact. What do you think? If this is the case Is there anything we can do to solve it?
I will be grateful for any tips 🙂
PS this is my first post in this forum. I’m grateful I found this place. It’s feel good to have someone to consult with. This was a long and lonely journey so far.
