Hi!
I want to start out by saying I have had penetrative vaginal sex three times, and it did not hurt at all.With, varying penis ‘lengths and girths’.However, I have had it happen that the guy I am with just is unable to get his penis inside me a LOT of other times. Even in relationships. Everything I have googled just pointed me towards vagismus, but I am not sure it is that since it has happened before. I really do not know what to do, am I just sometimes able to have intercourse? And how do I know a certain time it is going to happen, and when it is not? Because when it is not going to happen, it is like there is a physical soft blockade down there.
P.S. I am so grateful a chat forum like this is open, amazing to have found a place where I can just learn more about this type of stuff instead of relying on general listicles on ‘how to get ready for the first time’ by magazines hahaha
