[britksa]

It’s been a while since I posted wow! All the great advice I got here last year and so many good things have happened.

I successfully had intercourse in September 2015, less than 2 months after my procedure. Not long after in December I found out I was expecting!

Fast forward to August and I was blessed with a beautiful baby girl who is the love of my life.

Labour was a little hard as I went into it slightly unprepared and scared but the vaginismus didn’t stop what was to happen naturally.

Now I’ve healed from the tear I got 🙂 shall I return to using dilators again, I’ve not had intercourse in a long time and now I’ve given birth I’m once again afraid it will hurt.

It’s very nice I found this forum again! reading everyone’s success stories it’s truly wonderful.

[britksa]

Regarding the comfort of my current dilators ( ameile comfort ) at first I was quite scared of them to say the least but now they are good for me, especially as they help with that initial push that I find difficult. But now I’m worried that as I’ve gotten used to plastic, how will I be with my husband?

[britksa]

Thank you for your response doctor, I truly appreciate the support I can’t explain how helpful just your responses have been because it shows you care a great deal and this has helped me so much.

Yesterday was a huge success for me as I was able to progress to my 3rd dilator – it went in with easr after I dilated with 2 for about 10mins.

I have been dilating a total of 45-50 mind per day and have seen much progress in my handling on the initial insertion pain and following through with dilating.

I just read that my current dilator 3 is the equivalent length of the 5 for the pure romance 4 inches, this has made my day as I see myself getting a step closer to intercourse.

I had a question, when I was dilating today- I felt resistance when I pushed it all the way in. Is there a point where I cannot push in any further? Example when I go up a dilator? Which is about 5.5 inches.

Bless you both for your responses, help, support and advice. I cannot express how much this means to me.

[britksa]

Thank you for your quick response! I’ve looked at the sites and will best implement the advice. I have been using hard plastic dilators that I attach with a handle for easy insertion – the problem with the handle is I need to remain in a laying down position, seeing the silicone ones on the site made me understand how others have said they can sleep with them and use them while working.

I’m unable to order anything to be sent to me but I will continue to try and read all the encouraging posts on the forum.

Thank you so very much for your help and advice, it’s truly very much appreciated.

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