Better sex or more sex?

Which would you choose? I know the knee-jerk response would be, of course I’d choose quality over quantity…but maybe it’s not that simple. If you had a choice between one fabulous, awesome lovemaking session a month, versus twice a week pretty-good sex?

Hmmm…maybe at different points in our lives we have to make the trade-off. Especially if we’ve just had kids, have career overload or some health issues. And maybe the intimacy and closeness that’s created even from “sex without the fireworks” is worth it.

I’m not suggesting a right answer here, folks. Just something to think about.

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Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW, MPH, PhD

Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus is a certified sex therapist and the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, one of the largest centers for women’s sexual health in the country. Dr. Marcus wrote her dissertation on women and vibrator use while earning her Doctor of Philosophy in human sexuality from the Institute of Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She also has a Master’s in public health from the same institution. She is a licensed social worker with a Master’s degree from Columbia University. Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices and laboratories. In addition to being featured in a NY Times article, she is a frequent guest on radio, podcasts and has lectured both nationally and overseas on a wide variety of women's issues.
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