Hello everyone,
I’m new to this forum and hope to talk to and be inspired by others whom are also having problems with vaginismus as well as those who have overcomed it.
I’m 22 years old and am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. He’s so caring, kind and supportive and am very lucky to have him. This is also my first relationship. We have tried to be intimate, but each time we attempt penetration, I tense up and it hurts. We are both virgins as well. I know that sex the first time is supposed to hurt, but after many unsuccessful attempts, I sometimes feel worthless and hopeless. I am also on birth control and have tried getting a pap smear, but that didn’t work out.
My boyfriend has been very patient and will wait for me. I’m considering going to the women’s clinic and hope I can find some help there.
I appreciate any advice I receive and hope I can overcome this. Thank you!