[jasmine07]

Hello all,

I had my procedure done this morning, just about 9 hours ago. I have already gone through experiencing SO many emotions. Getting to the office I was unusually calm. My nerves kicked in as I got on the OR table. Although things were moving quickly, everyone there was more than comforting. Other than me, there were 6 people in the room including my husband. I began to cry and my anxiety shot up instantly in anticipation of what was to come. I am not sharing this to scare you, but rather to let you know that ALL WILL BE OKAY! The anesthesiologist and a staff member were holding my hands the entire time! I dont think that can be said for most people’s surgical or operative experiences. Dr. Pacik spoke very clearly before every move, explaining what was to be done, and was always asking if I was OK. I think it is very helpful for have your significant other in the room if hey are able to handle it. Watching the procedure, they are truly able to comprehend that the spastic reflecting is entirely involuntary–as you continue to do so while you are asleep.

I woke up with my legs un-strapped, hands still being held, with no recollection of what had happened over the past half hour. I felt better than good. Also a note to those who also hate mess like TylenolPM or any sort of woozy/drowsy feeling–there was little to no disorientationafter I regained consciousness. I was shocked as to how I had the large blue dilator in with ZERO pain. Of course, as the local anesthetic wears off, it does get to be slightly uncomfortable. Sitting on a stool for lunch with a fellow patient was not very comfortable, but I know that it will be worth the discomfort in the end. You dilate down 2 more sizes on the premises and keep the purple dilator in until the next morning at the counseling session.

I have to say, I am not nearly as comfortable now as I was coming out of the OR, and I’m sure it may get worse before it gets better. If you are considering this procedure, you really should go through with it. It’s okay to be scared or nervous. You will get through it.

Something that has truly helped SO much is Dr. Pacik and his amazing staff. I can’t say that enough. And to those who have mentioned thinking this is a scam..plese do not humor the thought any longer. All of us on here advocating are simply so pleased with our experiences–hence why I felt the need to post this THE DAY OF my procedure, even while I sit here in discomfort. I hope to post more as I go through other feelings and emotions.

I am so pleased with my progress, which makes the discomfort secondary at this time.

Lastly, it was really nice to meet the other two ladies there for the procedure today. I look forward to getting to know them better tomorrow. Although I wish the pain of vaginismus upon no one, it was comforting to know I wasn’t alone.

I think I’ll be taking another nap! Hang in there everyone 🙂

[jasmine07]

Hello SP,

I have not yet shared my story, which I plan to do, however I wanted to “introduce” myself to you. I will be headed to NH next week for my procedure as well! It will be nice to meet and connect with someone who has had a similar experience. I contacted Dr. Pacik’s office to ask some more questions a few days ago (as my anxiety levels were really shooting up!) I, too, am nervous about so many things….

–Whether it will work or not!
–Going under anesthesia
–Dilation/Healing
–Experience post-procedure

I requested to speak to someone who had been through the procedure and let me just say–I’m so thankful that I did. What’s even better is that WITHIN HOURS of the request, I had an email from both Dr. Pacik and a fellow “veteran.” which amazed me. I spoke to both of them. Dr. Pacik really took his time with me, and assured me that I could call him ANYTIME. The veteran I spoke to answered all of my questions and kept telling me that it was hands down, the best thing she EVER did and that everything would be GREAT. Speaking to both of them calmed my nerves so much!

You’re NOT alone. You’re definitely not the only one who fears it not working–because I do too! BUT! We have to have faith! And, we have to have confidence and trust in Dr. Pacik’s experience/knowledge.

It’s okay that we’re anxious. It’s okay to be nervous. It’s been a struggle, to say the least! Now we’re progressing along the journey in hopes to overcome Vaginismus.

I look forward to meeting you, and hopefully sharing our success stories post-procedure!

All the best to both of us!

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