Yes i agree everyone should be educated but its also not anyones fault something that you are not supposedly experience or heard how you will be able to accept it.
I forgot to mention
My dialation period took 4 months and i tried
Initially with my fingers I stared from one finger then 2 and the 3.
Then i stared with the dialators in diameter 3, 3.5 , 4,4.5 and at last 4.8
To whom ever still struggling and reading this is not easy i know but our vagina is an elastic the more you stretch it the more it will open, its not about the mind the or the heart its all about the muscle training your mind can race up and say yes i can do it take a jump in dilators i remember when i jumped from 3 to 4 I couldn’t so i started 3.5 and at first try it didn’t go in so i thought i should try it at night and o boy that was bad decision I remember hurting myself and I wasn’t able to do it for a week so take small step do it consistently but also just listen to your body if its ready theres no harm and i giving yourself a break.
Good luck to everyone
