I have been struggling with vaginismus for 6 years. 3 being in sercret with me and my boyfriend. I am only 21 so we were young when we first ‘tried’ to have sex. The first couple of times were painful and short after we realised it wasnt pleasurable or entertainmg for both of us so we started to entertain ourselves differently.
I have been to see so many different doctors some so bad that is was insulting to sit through the appointments. I have been to hypnotherapy and now i am currently going to a sexual health therapy. I just dont seem to be seeing a light at the end of tunnel. I am using trainers and i have gone from 1 to 3 within 3 months but its just such a long process i get so upset and frustrated that i cant show the one person i love how much i love them. It seems that everyone else can have sex other than me.
