Thanks for your reply, yes we are hopeful for a complete recovery and after researching it certainly isnt unrealistic to hope that happens. im not sure which dilators my wife is going to order, her pelvic therapist and our doctor have both given her some sites to look at and order from. We are in Australia so i presume it will be from a local australian site. i think she did mention that the ones shes looking at have handles to help assist.
Cheers