hey guys 🙂 it is so nice to see everyone coming together and being so open about this topic.
i am super young and don’t know if i should be here but it feels like i have no one to talk to and i really need some help.
So i am 14 and a virgin (i think) . I have never had a problem with getting a tampon in and have been using them since i was 12. A few months ago i tried to have sex and wasn’t entirely sure if i wanted to or not but we ended up trying. This may be a bit too detailed but it went less than half way in until i got the feeling like a literal sword was down there and it was really painful.I don’t think that my hymen is broken so i don’t even know if i have lost my virginity but i know that it really hurt. I’ve known for people to say that loosing your virginity hurts but i don’t think that it should hurt as much as it did. I read somewhere that sometimes when you aren’t ready to loose your virginity you vagina tenses without you knowing but i don’t know if there is really something wrong down there or if i just wasnt ready???
*also, i have never put anything up there except a tampon so i’m not sure if it was just shocking or me just not being used to it.
i am open to any advice:)
