[1983christopher]

I just came across this and wanted to share our success story from a mans perspective. I married my wife in january of 2007 and Vaganismus was an instant problem. We went through all the typical embarrassing feelings and resentment towards each other, Vacations would be ruined if we tried to have intercorse. I did though decide early on in my marriage that i wouldn’t let this ruin my marriage so when it came to Our sex life we both became masters of oral sex. Tmi, i know but i was determined to not let this ruin the Love we have for each other and i can honestly say that All those years i felt very sexually satisfied and so did she. even though under the surface there was that nagging problem. She was petrified to go to the Gyno. So i told myself, “when she is ready she will go” it took 6 years and one day she was just so sick of it all that she made the call to the Gyno and we went and it was a painful experience with the speculum exam but when the Doctor said “there is nothing wrong with you, you have one of the most beautiful cervixes ive seen, perfect for making babies.” if was such a relif for us even though we pretty much knew what was wrong having a diagnosis was the best thing. She had no surgery, i got her a diolator and let here every night just have time to herself to work through those emotions. it took about 3 months after that before she was able to have comfortable intercorse and 1 year later she was pregnant and we now have a 2.5 year old beautiful daughter and trying for another baby. Every time i look at my beautiful daughter it makese everything we went through well worth it. All i can say for advice is stick by your Woman, there is more than one way to be satisfied in the bedroom, gently suggest her to go get a diagnosis but dont push If you support her and she sees this she will eventually make that difficult decision. Show her love and compassion weve been married for 10 years now and yes it feels like weve been through tuffer times then some people who are married for 40 years but i wouldn’t trade my for nothing in this world.

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