I would like to know do I have a vaginismus, I have never had an intercourse, because I am afraid of the pain, I am anxious etc. when I was trying to put something inside it was so awfull feeling, maybe something like streching, for me it was like pain, I am afraid to repeat it… but I once have had a complete gyn examination, with her hand inside, pap smear and that small instrument – even if I was crying all the time and it was very uncomfortable, so she said that I do not have vaginismus….how to know is it vaginismus or something else…? sorry for my english…