[ezralopez]

Hello 60istheNewFifty,

Welcome to the forum. I personally don’t know if what you are going through is same as vaginismus. But don’t hesitate to message us here. Many here are knowledgeable and are willing to help you go through this. Do you feel pain? or discomfort? You can openly share your experience to us.

Ezra

[ezralopez]

Hi guys,

I had my gyne exam last week. I did it! (under sedation though). I didn’t remember the procedure at all. my gyne told me i am all normal down there. Have to contact her again for the next big step!

[ezralopez]

maisiemaise how are you now? Did you try to visit a gyne? Once you find a good gyne doctor you may air out your problem or concerns to that doctor and seek for solutions that may help you. In my case i did find a good doctor who is willing to go an extra mile. Hope you find yours too. Goodluck!

[ezralopez]

recessivegenequeen, yes i don’t want to spoil our short vacation so i and my gyne decided to move the schedule. Good thing she is very considerate and kind. I am determined already that this procedure be done, a little anxious thou but i need this for Us. Thank you so much for the encouragement. Share to you soon the outcome of my procedure.Thank you.

[ezralopez]

maisiemaise,

Fortunate for us to have understanding partners. I am married but until now we are still trying our best to find solutions with this situation i am in. Lucky for u to have a Boyfriend who understands u. at first it might be normal to feel sad, hopeless and maybe worhtless but just think of ur future husband someday. might as well address your problem now so u wont have any problems in the future. I can feel what u are feeling coz we have the same concers all of us here. So just try to seek for medical/psychological help (i did too). I am on sched with my gyne for a vaginal check under sedation. If you feel down just share your feelings here. all of us are here for each other. Goodluck!

Ezra

[ezralopez]

maisiemaisie

Welcome to the forum. Feel free to open up and tell us your feelings and concerns. I am also a new member. I felt alone but after joining this forum i was so glad that somebody understands what i am going through. So pls don’t lose hope. We are all here if you need someone to talk and ventilate your feelings to.

[ezralopez]

hello Recessivegenequeen

thank you so much for checking up on me. My appointment was moved to nextweek. Me and my husband took a leave from work to spend our anniversary. My gyne advised that the procedure be done aftr our getaway. I was anxious honestly but i need to do this for me and for my husband. The good thing was my gyne took an extra mile to help me with this. I wanted her to check me down there for any unusualities and that can be done only when inam sedated. My gyne asked the anesthesiologist to assist her to het me sedated. It melts my heart knowing there are those people that will help me go thru this. I also wanted to thank everyone of you who encouraged me and supports me all the way.

[ezralopez]

recessivegenequeen,

i thank all of you for your support. this coming monday is mu appointment. still feel a little anxious (became less because of your support and encouragement). I hope all will go well. thanks again!

[ezralopez]

Recessivegenequeen,

thank you so much for being with me through this. i am so thankful for the people who understands me. I am still anxious with the procedure with my gyne. 😞. Hoping i can get through this. thank you again guys!

ezra

[ezralopez]

hello Ms. Nicole,

I seem lost,depressed and alone because of the unique situation i am in. I’ve visited 3 gyne but all they say is “it’s all in your mind you’ll get over it”. I am hoping this 4th gyne will help and understand me. Encouraging and sweet messages from all of you helps lift up my spirit. thank you so much!

[ezralopez]

Hi Sks823,

thank you so much for your warm welcome. I am so thankful thinking other people understands the situation i am in. I have my gyne appointment few days from now. pls pray for me. thanks!

[ezralopez]

hi ezra here. I am married but we haven’t had actual intercourse yet. I fear the pain that i might go through and i feel that i have a small vaginal opening compared to other women. There where times when me and my husband tried the act but i seem tensed. Good thing I have a very understanding husband that supports me and patiently waits for me to heal or to be ready. Is this considered vaginismus too? I feel so depressed at times coz i don’t have someone to talk to that will understand the situation I am in. Please help me 😞

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