Hi bluemoon! I second what recessivegenequeen said. However, I am proof that sometimes hymens do need a professional. When I had my BOTOX treatment, I also had a hymenectomy while I was under and Melissa told me my husband wouldn’t have even been able to break it himself. It was stubborn and too big! I would start there, if you’re comfortable! You don’t want a negative trip to the gyno actually cause you vaginismus. If it works out for you and you’re vaginismus free, than great!! Less work! If you do have vaginismus, at least you got that hymen out of the way! 🙂 Regardless, you’ll be okay! You got this! Keep us updated