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This is good info! My partner and I were just talking about this. Right now, post-procedure, we’ve only had intercourse 4 times. I’m just getting used to it, learning what works and what doesn’t, and it’s really more mechanical for me. I feel emotionally satisfied knowing that we succeed, but it’s not sexually exciting yet (the foreplay is, just not the intercourse…probably also because of using so much lube). Right now, 1-2 minutes is good for me…my partner keeps feeling bad wanting to last longer…but right now, longer would be tiresome for me. Good to keep your communication open on this sometimes sensitive topic…