Hello there!
Congratulations on booking your treatment! I had the procedure done last September (2011) and by November I has having painless penetration. I am not single, but I began enjoying spontaneous intercourse in May 2012. I am so happy to realize that dilating prior to intercourse is now optional. My point is, you will eventually get to the day that you will feel comfortable dating knowing that you are completely functional and there are no more ‘walls up’. You are in the right path of overcoming vaginismus, Dr. Pacik and his staff are just the best!!