Hi itsmelina! I’m so happy for you that sex is possible! And like Theresa said, bigger is not always better. I always tell my Husband that his penis size is perfect. I don’t know why men get so caught up in wanting to be huge! The vagina only stretches back 5 or 6 inches, and that’s provided that the woman is appropriately aroused. I joke with my husband that if he were 8 inches, 2 inches of his penis would be very sad as that would not be going inside me! But, they do make a dilator that is meant to help stretch and strengthen the muscles of the vagina to accommodate larger partners, girth wise. Pure Romance is the name of the company. And if length is ever a problem, you could look into OhNut! They are little rubber rings, that go onto the penis. I think they send you 3 or 4 of them. So if need be, you could stack 2 on your partners penis and it would prevent his penis from going too deep into your vagina. My Husband and I gave them a shot when we had just started having penetrative sex after my vaginismus treatment and they work great! Some wonderful woman here at Maze told me about them and my husband didn’t have any complaints! He said they’re so comfy he couldn’t even feel it on him and it didn’t take away any of his pleasure. I am so happy for you that you are having pain free sex! 🙂 That’s the goal here!