Hi ladies. A common topic that comes up is how similar in size are the dilators to your husband/partner’s erect penis? In some instances, his penis could be larger than the largest blue dilator (“pure romance”). An option here could be making a silicone replica of his penis from a kit. This could give you the extra dilation you want with the correct matching size of his penis and be more comfortable.
Here, a couple of options include Make Your Own Dildo Kit and Clone-A-Willy. The Make Your Own Dildo Kit is a bit more expensive but is easier to use and provides you more material. You can also order additional material if needed to make the replica if your partner is larger.