All of the silicone sets seem similar in feel to me. Pure romance, inspire, Vwell, and intimate rose all have a firm enough texture to dilate, but don’t have the feeling of hard plastic.
The dilators need to be firm to push through the vaginal muscles, if the dilator is too soft, it would not be able to penetrate the vaginal entrance.
Our patients at Maze receive the pure romance dilator set with the Botox procedure. I have received a lot of feedback that this set of dilators is “much better than any plastic set”, and “very comfortable”.
I do like the intimate rose and vwell sets. Vwell also makes an XL kit which is great if you have a very large partner.