I have opened up to quite a few friends and family members. It has felt awkward every time and the hardest part is just what to say first. Usually I just tell them that I have a medical condition called “Vaginismus” and then I just explain what that is and what it means. Everyone is always shocked, as I was when on my wedding night when I realized something was wrong, no one ever has any idea its possible to NOT be able to have sex. Everything in movies and on TV make it look SO easy but it is definitely not like that in real life!