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ceegee
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Also to clarify, I shouldn’t say that it’s not touching the cervix AT ALL – I’m sure it is a little bit, but nothing to worry about. You’re sitting directly on it so it’s not the most comfy. I try to minimize how much I move around. I’ve also noticed that the poking is more prominent when I’m tense/leg locked, and I don’t even realize it. Take note of your relaxation level when you’re sitting still and try to breathe, relax and unclench your butt/legs/thighs etc – I’ll bet you notice a difference!