Hi emgb93 – great to hear from you, and congrats on making progress so far with the benefit of botox, that is amazing news!

So this is a fact that should probably be better known, but the vaginal canal isn’t that long – only about 5 inches when a woman is aroused. Depending on the size of your husband’s penis, it’s likely impossible to get it “all the way in” if it’s longer than 5 inches, and this is super normal. Same with your dilator that’s 6.25 inches long – that’s why it only goes 3/4 of the way in. You can learn more about this topic here: