Reply To: Tearing Posterior Fourchette

[Rah]

Hi Sleeplessinendburgh,

Lots of GP suck at women’s health and even the gyanecologists lack good knowledge!
I totally get it, it’s really hard to keep up the energy with it all. I think that’s a great idea about just enjoying yourself, that is also part of healing too, forgetting can be important.
I am also not in a relationship, so it’s also challenging. I would say from all my research and personal experience that using the dilators or the dildo in a fun way too! Not just clinical medical and that can really help.
I totally get it about being anxious about telling someone new or trying to get the translation from dilators to sex. Remember sex is actually a mind game! So reducing anxiety in any shape or form is important.

You got this girl! Go enjoy yourself on your travels, you deserve it!