Reply To: Waiting long before seeking help

[Heather]

Hi bettydee! Absolutely, yes, I too thought pain was normal and that girls who had sex were brave and dare devils lol! My vaginismus didn’t even allow a finger comfortably without severe pain and I didn’t start seeking treatment until 2018 when I was 23 years old. I am so proud of you for beginning your journey!! You are so brave and you WILL rise and conquer this challenge! Consistency is what kills vaginismus. Is there any advice I could offer you? Let me know if so I’ll be glad to help! 🙂 You got this!