km8899 – I’m so glad you found us – welcome to our community!
Very sorry to hear that you are struggling – we understand. Vaginismus can manifest for a variety of reasons, and a negative first sexual experience can certainly impact your mind and body. But with proper diagnosis and treatment, you will find your way to healing.
Heather is right about potential partners – they will surprise you! It may take some time, but the right person is out there; someone who will be supportive, encouraging and patient. You DESERVE that in a partner, and nothing less.
We offer a free, 10-minute phone consult – give Maze a call for a more in-depth discussion about what next steps may be right for you. In the meantime – we wish you all our best!