Thank you so much recessivegenequeen! It’s been a difficult journey but I am very thankful things have improved over time. My doctor appt got reschedule, so hopefully I will have some sort of answer soon. I do plan to talk to my boyfriend about it, just last night I told him about the pain with my ex, but I didn’t bring up the fact that it still hurts afterward. I just haven’t found the right time yet. But you’re right, it’s important that we talk about it, and I know he will be supportive. After all, my body has basically told me he is a good choice, lol.