After i have dilated i suffer from lower abdominal pain and always feel lile i need to go to th toilet …. ( to empty my bowels also) Sory for th detail i just wondered whther i was causing any infection etc as it puts me off dilating even when i want to.
This sounds more like reflex spasm of other areas than an infection. It is common during the early days of dilation for women to feel the need to urinate even though they may have just emptied their bladders. This is all part of a reflex affecting nearby organs.