Hi all. I have mentioned the Lelo in my recent posts and can’t recommend it enough. For many months post-procedure, I would always dilate in advance of intercourse. This helped me to feel both physically and emotionally ready for it but it also made it feel mechanical for the both of us. To overcome this, we started using the Lelo prior to intercourse as a part of our foreplay and it is just awesome and worked so well. We can now have fun date nights with spontaneous sex and just use this prior to actual intercourse so I still continue to feel ready for it but also have fun with the hubby prior!!!