Here are a few thoughts:
For anyone not wanting to share their problem with parents, just order my book “When Sex Seems Impossible…”, give it to your Mom and simply tell her “this is me”. You don’t need to say another word! It can be ordered through Amazon as book or Kindle.
There is considerable difference between mild vaginismus suitable for self treatment and severe vaginismus where it is likely you will need the Botox program under anesthesia. You can rate yourself by linking to [url] http://www.vaginismusmd.com/vaginismus/lamont-classification/ [/url] Let us know.
If you feel comfortable what type of surgery was done? Members of the Forum should know that hymenectomy rarely works for vaginismus.
This is an important conversation and I would like to hear from the others.